Rejection dating quotes
But on the other side of your comfort zone is: awesomeness, freedom and a life that is SO much better for you. The good news is, you do get used to being rejected by people.
But it does come with a price tag: rejection – plus a side of judgement. It’s like a muscle that you have to exercise at first, but once you do, you feel unstoppable — so keep going, and get used to it.
As I’ve suffered through rejection in my life, I’ve often asked the questions, “Why me? ” Rejection often walks hand-in-hand with a powerful feeling of loneliness. He was laughed at, ridiculed, and rejected even by members of his own family. Abinidi, who tried to convert the wicked King Noah and his priests, was rejected and eventually burned for his efforts.
It doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it just means someone else failed to notice what you have to offer. But then you have to let your emotions fuel you in a positive way! Let your feelings of rejection drive you, feed you, and inspire one heck of a powerful opening to the next chapter of your story.
As you look back on your life, you will realize that many of the times you thought you were being rejected from someone or something you wanted, you were in fact being redirected to someone or something you needed.
Seeing this when you’re in the midst of feeling rejected, however, is quite tough. As soon as someone critiques, criticizes, and pushes you away – as soon as you are rejected – you find yourself thinking, “Well, that proves once again that I’m not worthy.” What you need to realize is, the other person or situation is NOT worthy of YOU and your particular journey. There isn’t a soul on this planet that doesn’t feel a small fraction of their heart break at the realization of rejection.
The hero story always comes with a hardship which has to be endured before a triumph is seen.
It looks easier in the older history books – slay the dragon, kill the evil king, free the prisoners — okay, maybe I have been watching too much Game of Thrones – but the point is, there is a definite ‘task’ which must be completed before success is earned. If you allow it to, it can keep you stuck, quitting before you are meant to and giving up because rejection can sometimes make us question ourselves and the value we bring to those around us.